We build from the inside not from the outside. If we want to experience change in our communities, the way we talk to others will make all the difference when it comes to moving forward in building unity and purpose. How we talk about the people in our community affects the future of the people we live and work with. Many people point fingers at what others have done wrong and speak down to the very people they’re trying to help.
Proverbs 11:10-12
10 When the righteous prosper, the city rejoices; when the wicked perish, there are shouts of joy. 11 Through the blessing of the upright a city is exalted, but by the mouth of the wicked it is destroyed. 12 Whoever derides their neighbor has no sense, but the one who has understanding holds their tongue.
Here scripture says, the mouths of the wicked destroy their communities by creating an us and them mentality. What we say and how we say it matters. When we see a problem, we need to choose between fixing the blame on others or fixing the problem with others. People know when they are being spoken down to and they harbor bitterness towards those who speak in the I, me, and my, but when we choose language like we, not me, our community feels heard, included, and valued.
1 Thessalonians 5:11-12
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. 12 Now we ask you, brothers and sisters, to acknowledge those who work hard among you, who care for you in the Lord and who admonish you.
When God moves in a community, He builds a team. The leaders of the team know this and value the people more than the project. Remember, blame destroys motivation while solutions motivate unity in community. So, let’s focus on ideas and language that unites people with projects that will encourage and bless.
How is God asking you to connect with your community to bring blessings? What is the Holy Spirit saying to you through these scriptures?